{"id":2431,"date":"2012-08-20T05:46:03","date_gmt":"2012-08-20T11:46:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/?p=2431"},"modified":"2012-08-20T05:50:05","modified_gmt":"2012-08-20T11:50:05","slug":"its-not-only-an-ice-cream-culture-rant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2012\/08\/20\/its-not-only-an-ice-cream-culture-rant\/","title":{"rendered":"it&#8217;s not only an ice cream (culture rant)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was in Shinbashi and decided to order an ice cream cone at this small shop.<\/p>\n<p>I ordered coconut milk, and this extra topping of caramel sauce.  There was a young man who took my order, and a young girl behind a window who was making it.  Just as the girl finished making it, I noticed that she put lots of whipped cream on the top. I don&#8217;t like whipped cream, so I asked if they could just take it off.<\/p>\n<p>The young man said to the girl, &#8220;Oh, the customer doesn&#8217;t like whipped cream, please make another one without it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It took me a second to catch this exchange, but then I saw the girl getting another cone.<br \/>\n&#8220;Oh, wait,&#8221; I called loudly, so they could both hear.  &#8220;It&#8217;s okay, you don&#8217;t need to make a new one, just take the whipped cream off of that one&#8230;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The girl glanced at me, and continued moving, getting the ice cream scooper.  The man said, &#8220;Don&#8217;t worry, it&#8217;s okay.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s NOT okay, I want that one, just take off the cream!  It&#8217;s a waste.&#8221;<br \/>\nThe lady ignored me.  She goes to scoop new ice cream.<br \/>\n&#8220;STOP!&#8221; I shouted.  &#8220;I don&#8217;t want a new one, I want that one!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>IGNORED.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Excuse me, please, it&#8217;s a waste!  No!!!!&#8221;  <\/p>\n<p>She scooped out new ice cream into a new cone.  No going back. I COULD HAVE SNEEZED On the blob of whipped cream and it would have fallen off. NO NEED to make another whole one! WTF<\/p>\n<p>The man said, &#8220;It&#8217;s okay, the stafff will eat it&#8230;&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;It&#8217;s not okay!&#8221; I said loudly.  &#8220;I don&#8217;t want it!&#8221;<br \/>\nLike hell they will.  They&#8217;re working, they&#8217;re not allowed to. That sucker was going in the trash the second my back was turned, and that infuriated me.<br \/>\n&#8220;I don&#8217;t want it!&#8221; I said. &#8220;Stop!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>IGNORED. The man looked uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>I fumed.  I tried to tell myself, &#8220;Just relax, it&#8217;s Japan, you&#8217;re getting a new ice cream, just let them waste it.  They&#8217;re obviously fracking morons who obviously don&#8217;t care about profits, or making the customer happy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But I knew there was no way I was going to be able to enjoy that ice cream, I was so ticked off.  But I had already paid my 500 yen. I considered walking out, but 500 yen is expensive for ice cream.  And then there would be TWO wasted cones instead of ONE.  AND I WAS SUPPOSED TO BE ON A DIET, so I felt like 10 times guilty.  Or else I would have demanded both of them. LOL Actually considered taking the one with the cream and running, but I wasn&#8217;t fast enough and I couldn&#8217;t reach it.<\/p>\n<p>fcking Japan and fsking inflexible rules piss me off so freaking much.  It&#8217;s just a stupid ice cream, nothing to get worked up over.  <b>However, it really embodies major issues I have living in the culture.  <\/b>WHY CAN&#8217;T PEOPLE HAVE A LITTLE COMMON SENSE?!  Common sense in Japan is NOT common sense in the US, and it&#8217;s REALLY HARD. >_<  \n\nToday it was ice cream.  Five years ago a hospital employee turned me away from an emergency room when I <b>had a fever of 104 and was FCKING BLEEDING FROM MY GUMS.<\/b> He told me that I just had &#8216;a cold&#8217; and come back tomorrow because the hospital is closed at 9 PM.  (I went to a second hospital by taxi and an dental specialist told me I had a serious blood infection and put me on an IV for two days. Bless him)<\/p>\n<p>RETURNING to my story.<\/p>\n<p>After I finished my cone, which was absolutely delicious but I didn&#8217;t enjoy it AT ALL, I went back and explained to those stupid, young whippersnappers the following:<br \/>\n&#8220;The ice cream was delicious!  (they smiled) But I have something to say. I think customer service in Japan is the best! (smile) However, you didn&#8217;t listen to me in the end, so it actually made me feel very bad.  So I wish you had listened to me in the end, because I&#8217;m a very unhappy customer now.&#8221;<br \/>\nThe man said, &#8220;But it&#8217;s alright.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Actually, it&#8217;s not alright at all,&#8221; I said. &#8220;Please tell the lady in the back,&#8221; I said, and walked off.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was in Shinbashi and decided to order an ice cream cone at this small shop. I ordered coconut milk, and this extra topping of caramel sauce. There was a young man who took my order, and a young girl behind a window who was making it. 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