{"id":8094,"date":"2018-05-10T08:50:24","date_gmt":"2018-05-10T14:50:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/?p=8094"},"modified":"2018-05-10T09:03:12","modified_gmt":"2018-05-10T15:03:12","slug":"wedding-in-mass-promotion-studying-japanese-training-update","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2018\/05\/10\/wedding-in-mass-promotion-studying-japanese-training-update\/","title":{"rendered":"Wedding in Mass, promotion, studying Japanese, training, update!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I kind of fell off with my Japanese studying and I&#8217;m ashamed of myself. It has been my yearly resolution for years, five years exactly, ever since I left Japan. I&#8217;m not talking to my Japanese friends as much, not studying my notes, not writing as many blogs&#8230;. I have to do something and be more strict with myself. One reason is that I discovered I could take naps after breakfast. People ask me what I do when I wake up (unintentionally) at 4 AM every day. Well, after breakfast, I clean, do chores, use social media, study, write blogs, watch anime, stuff like that. But then I started falling asleep while watching anime and woke up an hour later feeling GREAT. So I intentionally started putting on slow-moving shows like the old Godzilla movies (sorry Serena) which knock me right out. There goes my extra hour. \ud83d\ude41<\/p>\n<p>I always keep promises to myself, but maybe I need to reexamine this. Maybe schedule a time, like how at 10 AM every Sunday I call my college friend Q, or 3 PM every Saturday I call Mom. Maybe 7 AM every morning I&#8217;ll study song lyrics for ten minutes. That should be doable. That makes 70 minutes every week&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Alright.<\/p>\n<p>This past week was exciting!  On Friday I trained, taught kids, and then took a 10 PM night flight to Boston to visit my Dad and attend my step-brother Peter&#8217;s wedding.  It was such a nice ceremony and event.  Everybody looked great.  <\/p>\n<p>I wore a dress&#8230;.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2018\/05\/10\/wedding-in-mass-promotion-studying-japanese-training-update\/roxy-in-a-dress-for-wedding\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8097\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/roxy-in-a-dress-for-wedding.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"491\" height=\"576\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8097\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Lots of lovey-dovey speeches and stuff.  My dad got remarried after I had graduated from college, so I never grew up with my step-family, but they are really good people.  Congratulations, Peter and Megan!<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2018\/05\/10\/wedding-in-mass-promotion-studying-japanese-training-update\/chris-speach-at-wedding\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8096\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/chris-speach-at-wedding.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"432\" height=\"576\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8096\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nThe wedding was Sunday, so Saturday morning, everybody was involved with rehearsals and such preparations, so I went to Joe Lauzon&#8217;s MMA academy!  It was literally down the street.  I really enjoyed the grappling and opted out of the kickboxing part of it.  I was sleep deprived, didn&#8217;t feel like getting hit in the head by people I didn&#8217;t know, and was getting over a light shoulder\/neck strain.  I grappled some really skilled people!  Thanks for the hospitality, guys! \ud83d\ude00  I love traveling but hate how it messes up my training schedule.  I always return home to Vegas feeling stiff, out of shape, and not as sharp.<\/p>\n<p>I met Joe when I was a freshman in college, because I went to UMass Amherst and attended MMA and grappling events where he was.  I remember a &#8220;Mass Destruction&#8221; MMA show that helped run because my coach Kirik was friends with the promoter Kipp.  I think I helped build the ring.  I was sitting at the T-shirts table getting ready to sell them, when someone shouted, &#8220;So-and-so dropped out of the fight.&#8221; Joe spoke up, &#8220;I&#8217;ll fight! I have my stuff!&#8221;  <\/p>\n<p>This was back in 2005 or 2006, I think?  He just got in the ring and fought that night. And beat the other guy up. WHO DOES THAT?! That&#8217;s freaking amazing. He&#8217;s such a bad-@$$.  Great person and I&#8217;m such a fan. I was so thrilled when he got in the UFC.  Such an inspiration.  When people ask me who my favorite fighter is, I say &#8220;Matt Serra and Joe Lauzon.&#8221;<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2018\/05\/10\/wedding-in-mass-promotion-studying-japanese-training-update\/joe-lauzon-and-roxy\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8095\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/joe-lauzon-and-roxy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"504\" height=\"672\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8095\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nI didn&#8217;t get to train with him this time, but it was cool to see him.<\/p>\n<p>I promoted my student Aleena on Monday!  I&#8217;m so proud of her!  She&#8217;s been training constantly for about a year and a half.  It&#8217;s hard to know when to promote kids because I want to award her hard work, but lots of schools hold their kids back so they can go to tournaments and beat up other white belts.  It&#8217;s also a reflection on my teaching&#8230;I have to make sure I teach her enough and teach her well to be a good jiujitsu player. Some schools award belts based on time and attendance, not necessarily ability.<\/p>\n<p>I felt so happy I almost cried to tie the belt around her waist. She was smiling so hard and was so happy! I love her so much!<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2018\/05\/10\/wedding-in-mass-promotion-studying-japanese-training-update\/aleena-promotion-group-pic\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8098\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/aleena-promotion-group-pic.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"774\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8098\" srcset=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/aleena-promotion-group-pic.jpg 960w, http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/aleena-promotion-group-pic-632x510.jpg 632w, http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/aleena-promotion-group-pic-768x619.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nLook at the expressions on everybody&#8217;s faces! hahaha So funny and cute!<br \/>\nWhen I went to take a pic with her, she jumped on my back and half-choked me. Hah. She likes to choke me. But I taught her that chokes are fun, so I do not mind. XD<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2018\/05\/10\/wedding-in-mass-promotion-studying-japanese-training-update\/aleena-on-roxys-back-with-serena\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8099\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/aleena-on-roxys-back-with-serena.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"432\" height=\"576\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8099\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We now have four new gray-white belts in my little kids class. Katie got promoted in the big kids class, so we have three new ranks there.  yay congrats! \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n<p>My buddy and training partner Chelsea Rae has her first amateur fight coming up in June!  I&#8217;m so excited for her to step in the cage and show her skills!  She&#8217;s been helping me out by being my partner for wrestling and jiujitsu private lessons, and I&#8217;ve been trying to teach her stuff, too.  This is literally the definition of &#8220;teamwork.&#8221; lol She&#8217;s looking for sponsors to help out with covering fight expenses, (like private lesson fees, printing clothing, diet food, weight-cut supplies, etc) so if you are interested in helping, hit me up! basilisk875 at Yahoo.com Or message on Facebook or twitter or whatever.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2018\/05\/10\/wedding-in-mass-promotion-studying-japanese-training-update\/chelsea-and-roxy-idrink\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8100\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/chelsea-and-roxy-idrink-632x843.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"632\" height=\"843\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8100\" srcset=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/chelsea-and-roxy-idrink-632x843.jpg 632w, http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/chelsea-and-roxy-idrink.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 632px) 100vw, 632px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I haven&#8217;t done gi jiujitsu in a bit. :\/ I miss it, but I have to refocus on my fight prep. I&#8217;ve done more conditioning and have started to feel like I&#8217;m getting back in MMA fight shape. It&#8217;s a totally different state of fitness. Right, John?  I invited a new friend I made at Dunham&#8217;s BJJ, John Freeman, to come in and do the MMA grappling class with me and help me out, because 1) he&#8217;s cool 2) I can trust him not to injure me 3) he can out-technique me 4) he&#8217;s around my weight. Thanks a lot! Hope to see you next Monday!<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2018\/05\/10\/wedding-in-mass-promotion-studying-japanese-training-update\/john-freeman-at-syndicate2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-8105\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/john-freeman-at-syndicate2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"432\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-8105\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My friend suggested I make an Amazon Wish list&#8230; I don&#8217;t want people to think I&#8217;m fishing for gifts, but why not make a list, I guess?  I&#8217;ve been blessed with surprise packages from time to time.  It makes me happy just to get anybody&#8217;s letter or kind word that they are thinking of me and wishing me well! <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/hz\/wishlist\/ls\/3R8ZZV3FADHLG?&#038;sort=default\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/hz\/wishlist\/ls\/3R8ZZV3FADHLG?&#038;sort=default<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Shout out to my blog sponsor <a href=\"http:\/\/myconsumerit.com\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">My Consumer I.T.<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/2017\/11\/20\/tuf-25-ep-10-blog-life-in-the-tuf-house-barb-vs-rachael-nicco-vs-montana\/bill-k-logo-final-01\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7589\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/roxannemodafferi.net\/RBlog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Bill-K-logo-final-01-300x119.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"119\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-7589\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nThis company helps businesses with Database administration SSL security, WiFi admin, web hosting, and more!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I kind of fell off with my Japanese studying and I&#8217;m ashamed of myself. It has been my yearly resolution for years, five years exactly, ever since I left Japan. I&#8217;m not talking to my Japanese friends as much, not studying my notes, not writing as many blogs&#8230;. 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